Tuesday, March 29, 2011

The new normal?

What is the new normal? Exhaustion, apparently. All of you experienced mom's out there are nodding your head, and secretly are glad that another newbie has been initiated into your club. Misery loves company. If anyone leaves a comment gloating about how their newborn slept through the night at -- weeks, I'm going to cry. So, the last month has been an adventure for the record books, and we were so glad to arrive home last Thursday. Everything was as we left it, which was a huge relief to a worrier like me. That is, if you don't count the hamster that inexplicably lost all her hair (creepy). But still, it could have been much worse. We spent Thursday evening introducing Jack to his new family members, who fawned over him appropriately. Kyle was so excited to have a new cousin, that he informed Sue that she needed to have another baby. He even asked if they could take him to their house for a few days.

Friday, I summoned the energy to roll into my office to survey the damage. I left things in great hands, but sometimes you just need to see for yourself. On the way home, I stopped by BabiesRUs to pick up Jack's swing, which I was assured would be a necessity. He loves it! For about 30 seconds. Then he screams bloody murder to get out.
About Jack: Today is his three week birthday. What a little snuggle bunny! To say that he loves to be held is an understatement. I am more than willing to indulge him in this, but it could come back to haunt me. He's doing better about sleeping in his crib, but unfortunately he just doesn't feel the need to sleep that much. Combine a baby that wants to be held, with a baby that loves to be awake, and you have two very tired parents. I couldn't imagine doing this on my own! Daron has been indispensable these last few weeks. I keep telling him he is a natural at this. In fact, this is how I frequently find these two:
I brought him to work with me yesterday, and he did great. He has a little cradle that sits next to my desk, which he was content to hang out in. Keeping focused on work is difficult, but only because he is so dang cute! I just want to pick him up and love on him!
But Elisa- in all of these pics he is sleeping so peacefully! You said he didn't sleep?! -Yes, he sleeps some. I can't resist the sleepy pictures! So all the boys are home together today alone, which I think Daron was a little worried about. They will be fine, or I wouldn't have left them. At least that's what I told Daron. It took the dog a day or two to warm up, but they are thick as thieves now. Wherever Jack is, Skip drags his pillow over next to him. I hope this means they are going to be good buddies. This is how I left them this morning:
At least 3/4 of us are getting some sleep! Bottom line, we LOVE LOVE LOVE this boy, and are so excited to finally have him home! My mom and sister come out in a couple days, and I'm super excited to show him off. And maybe catch a nap? We will see...

7 comments:

Kim and Ken Carlile said...

One of these days we'll all be healthy again and we can come visit him! I'm glad everything is going so well!

Kelli DenBeste said...

Jack couldn't have better parents!!! It makes me so happy to see how much he is loved! I love you Daron and Elisa!!!

Katie C. said...

I totally feel for you on the not sleeping thing. Benjamin was very alert, all the time (at least it felt like that), and he *still* wakes up early! But they're just such cuties that it's ok, somehow. :o) SO happy for you!

Shannon said...

Jack is such a cutie...I'm so excited for you guys. I can sympathize with you on the sleep thing because it's rough. Caroline was a terrible sleeper for quite a while, but we worked out the kinks eventually. Hang in there and be sure to catch lots of naps when your mom arrives:)

Heather McKeon said...

Is it weird to say that I keep looking at these photos and thinking Jack looks like Daron? Well I do, and he does. Just proof that he was meant for your family!

Can't wait to come and meet him. And no surprise here - but I will be bearing gifts that I have been just waiting to give you! :)

Sofia L said...

Oh the no sleep thing is starting to take its toll on me too. I totally understand. Good thing babies are cute!

Eva said...

LOVE LOVE LOVE the pic of the 3 amigos!!!
So very happy for you both. Having met Jack now...well I can totally see why you all are so in love with him. He is a SWEETY!